About Me

this darling world

After my husband and I married in 2011, we took an incredible honeymoon that changed our goals forever. I fell head over heels for traveling. It all started in Venice, Italy, and it hasn’t stopped since.

We made travel a priority, even though we’re not full-time travelers. Since then, we’ve visited 21 countries and 150+ cities together. We enjoy exploring beyond the main city in every country we visit, which is why our city count is so high. Smaller towns are my favorite!

But here’s the thing: we don’t have unlimited vacation time, unlimited money, or unlimited energy. We work, we have real lives at home, and our trips have to fit into the time we actually have.

That’s what you’ll find here. I share realistic itineraries, thoughtful trip ideas, scenic drives, places to stay, and the travel decisions I’ve learned over years of exploring.

This blog combines everything I know: my journalism and marketing background, my love for travel, and my interest in photography. I work in advertising, and I dedicate a lot of time to this site. My husband is a 9-5 engineer (think robots) and has cheered me on with this passion project since day one.

We live in the beautiful city of Chicago. Have you been? You should come! In our downtime, we love trying new restaurants and cafes in our hometown, exploring new places in the city, watching sitcoms, and fostering dogs.

When I’m not busy with everyday life, I dream up incredible trips and figure out how to make the most of our time. After all these years, I’ve learned that good travel isn’t about seeing everything; it’s about choosing what’s actually worth your time. So, here I am sharing how we make it work, how you can make it work, and how a little careful planning can get you across the world.

 

16 Comments

  • Reply Anonymous October 9, 2026 at 11:41 am

    What a beautiful story ..so true and organic. It is nice that you share your insight, and that travel IS a part of your life …

  • Reply Anonymous December 18, 2024 at 8:22 pm

    Thanks so much for your write up on Studious Coffee + Wine! We really appreciate the shoutout and the support. We hope to see you in again soon. 🙂

    • Reply Lily December 19, 2024 at 9:35 am

      Absolutely! We go back monthly 🙂

  • Reply Joe January 26, 2023 at 12:47 am

    Lily. I came upon your blog accidentally while researching Chicago location sites for the movie U S Marshals. After being transferred there from Los Angeles, where I met my wife of almost 50 years, I could hardly wait to receive another transfer (because of the freezing temperatures). Now, after reading your blog, we find that we both miss the years that we lived on Richie Court and our walks near Oak Street Beach. California may have the weather but Chicago has the charismatic people, colorful neighborhoods with character and restaurants.

    Thank you for bringing back the memories for us.

    Joe

    • Reply Lily August 19, 2023 at 12:20 am

      Joe, thank you so much for reading! I’m glad I was able to bring back good memories and hope you visit soon.

  • Reply Anonymous September 5, 2022 at 12:16 pm

    Saw your post on Guanajuato and I’m planning my next trip there! I’ve been once but I’m def. gonna check out the AirBnb you suggested!

    • Reply Lily October 26, 2022 at 6:08 pm

      I hope you enjoy your trip! Thanks for reading.

  • Reply Diane Moore July 24, 2020 at 2:20 pm

    Lily, just found your blog while planning my first trip to Europe. Your blog and photography are fantastic! I too, have a passion for photography and would shoot the whole world if I could. Your post on the Cotswolds have definitely helped me in my planning. Thank you and I look forward to following more of your blogs.

    • Reply Lily July 25, 2020 at 12:01 am

      Thank you so much, Diane! That means a lot 🙂 I’m so glad you found the info and photos helpful that’s my ultimate goal. The Cotswolds is an absolute dream, I’m sure you’ll love it! Thanks again for reading!

  • Reply Annie July 26, 2019 at 11:41 am

    Do you have any air bnb reviews? Anywhere!

    • Reply This Darling World July 30, 2019 at 7:08 pm

      Hi Annie! I have reviews of Airbnb’s in different city posts. I don’t have a post just for Airbnb reviews unfortunately. I will be writing about my favorite stays all over the world next week though. That post will include some Airbnb reviews. Keep an eye out for it! 🙂

  • Reply Alison Macbeth, The Postcard September 26, 2018 at 4:16 pm

    Hi Lily! Just came across your blog when browsing for posts on Haarlem. So glad to find it — I feel our blogs (and love of travel) are very similar! Looking forward to following along on all your adventures 🙂

    • Reply This Darling World October 5, 2018 at 6:39 pm

      I love this! Thank you for your comment 🙂 I will definitely check out your stuff as well.

  • Reply Sari November 28, 2016 at 8:42 pm

    You blog is really nice Lily 👍❤️️

    • Reply this darling world December 3, 2016 at 2:49 am

      Thanks so much, excited to share more stories and tips! I have tons!😃

  • Reply Erin Scherer June 28, 2016 at 5:26 pm

    I look forward to following along! 🙂

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